The ideal weddings and the proper


   Young married ...?
* Free online again, all of a sudden there is a jamming-chat. zella, high school my friend *
Zella: "Fitri, from Dana's wedding invitations can be X-1"
Me: "Haahhh ..?? When ..??"
Zella: "Saturday December 21 at Relax. Invitation I titipin father tomorrow."
Me: "Okay. But I think I can not be coming."
* finished * chat

    Yap was a brief conversation that instantly makes a prolonged silence. Sekalasku fit friend in high school grade 1 cuuy marriage ...
LHA then why ..?
 
   Yes why not, why siih ... Just why am I still singles already there when my friend is married ..? So it kind of jealous. He could already be 'companion' why I have not ..? * you know why so vent anyway ..? Change-change *

   Actually this is not the first experience of marriage to an invitation from friend. A long time ago I was in high school right if not wrong, there are schools that send my friend an invitation to the wedding house. Direct instantaneous and do not believe shock. O'ow the 'we are still in high school have already dateng to siih wedding invitation ..?? That's our job .. Mother-father? Finally after chatting to my neighbors as well as my friends who are also first-class contemporary fit for SD we agreed not coming. Instead of not respecting the ngundang siih .. so we just wrote will tengsin coming. Finally we just gave away the prayer of course is so he can undergo a household with sakinah, mawaddah, and warahmah ... Amiinnn ...
   After that I do not remember how many already have another good friend or a friend home school friend, who suddenly rumored to get married but do not directly give an invitation or an invitation but yes bener give ditujuin invitation to the mother / father.
    Not to mention her children the same apartment Mother / Father of the same age as me who also decided to get married. Compounded at the same age as my brother who I used to play together very well decide to get married.


   Honestly still can not believe it with friends who dared to decide to marry young, married at the early age of 20. By law and religion are not there already a ban, especially in religion when you're ready to get married, get married. But somehow I have not come to mind where the latter I would also dare to behave like them. Married young.

   In addition there is not the candidate I felt myself that his name was not ready to marry. Many things still have to dipertimbangin.
First, because I was still not ready, mentally not dare to decide to marry young. I was still too unstable, selfish, Childish, and still want to be free to do everything themselves.
If you think about it, I wrote my own life committee is still a mess how would ngurusin lives of others as well ..?
    Still difficult to get up early ..
Wash dishes, sweep the house, washing clothes, ironing and others still lazy-malesan ..
Cook ..? Can not ..
Naah what should I do in fact want to marry the person we are also ngurusin child ..?
   

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